Advising Clients

Helping Clients With Hardship Requests

When a customer asks for more time because of genuine hardship, the response matters. Handled well, it recovers the debt and keeps the relationship; handled poorly, it loses both.

In this guide

  • Assess whether a hardship request is genuine
  • Structure a payment arrangement that actually works
  • Document any arrangement clearly
  • Know when patience has run out

6 min

Test Whether It Is Genuine

Hardship requests fall into two camps: genuine difficulty and convenient delay. The first deserves flexibility; the second is a stalling tactic in disguise. Help clients distinguish them by looking at the detail and consistency of the request — a customer in real difficulty usually explains their situation openly and proposes a concrete way forward.

By contrast, a customer who simply asks for 'more time' without specifics, repeatedly, while continuing to trade normally, may be using hardship as cover. The response should differ accordingly: accommodate genuine hardship sensibly, but do not let a vague appeal indefinitely defer a debt that could be paid.

Build A Workable Arrangement

Where hardship is real, a structured payment arrangement often recovers far more than rigid demands would. The key is to make it realistic: instalments the customer can actually meet, a defined schedule, and a total that clears the debt in reasonable time. An arrangement set too high simply fails and wastes everyone's effort.

Encourage clients to agree something the customer is likely to honour rather than the maximum they could theoretically pay. A modest arrangement that is met in full beats an ambitious one that collapses after the first instalment, leaving the debt no closer to settled and goodwill spent.

Put The Arrangement In Writing

Any hardship arrangement should be confirmed in writing — the instalment amounts, the dates, the total, and what happens if a payment is missed. This protects both sides: the customer knows exactly what is expected, and the client has a clear record if the arrangement is not honoured.

The written terms should make clear that the original debt remains payable in full and that the arrangement is a concession, not a reduction, unless the client has genuinely agreed to settle for less. Vague verbal arrangements are where good intentions quietly turn into disputes later on.

Know When To Stop Accommodating

Flexibility has limits. If a customer breaks an agreed arrangement, keeps requesting extensions, or shows no real intention of paying, continued patience just delays the inevitable while the debt ages. At some point genuine accommodation tips into being taken advantage of, and the client should recognise that line.

When an arrangement repeatedly fails, in-house effort has usually run its course. The client can then refer the debt for professional recovery, having given the customer a fair chance — a position that is both commercially sound and easy to defend.

Key takeaways

  • Genuine hardship is detailed and consistent; stalling is vague and repeated
  • Set instalments the customer can realistically meet
  • Confirm every arrangement in writing, including default consequences
  • A repeatedly broken arrangement is the signal to escalate

Frequently asked questions

How can my client tell if hardship is genuine?

Genuine requests tend to be specific, openly explained and paired with a concrete proposal. Vague, repeated requests while trading normally suggest a stalling tactic.

What makes a payment arrangement succeed?

Realism. Instalments the customer can actually meet, a defined schedule and a clear total are far more likely to clear the debt than an over-ambitious plan.

When should the client stop offering more time?

Once an agreed arrangement is broken or extensions keep being requested without progress. At that point referring the debt is reasonable and defensible.

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